rsocket: Spin before blocking on an rsocket

rsocket: Spin before blocking on an rsocket

The latency cost of blocking is significant compared to round
trip ping-pong time.  Spin briefly on rsockets before calling
into the kernel and blocking.

The time to spin before blocking is read from an rsocket
configuration file %sysconfig%/rdma/rsocket/polling_time.  This
is user adjustable or may be set automatically by ibacm.

As a completely unintentional side effect, this just happens to
improve application performance in benchmarks, like netpipe,
significantly. ;)

Signed-off-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>