[MTHCA\MT23108\IBAL] change to support TRAP and TRAP_REPRESS

[MTHCA\MT23108\IBAL] change to support TRAP and TRAP_REPRESS
1. set TRAP_FORWARD in case slid == 0
2. fix command MAD_IFC to set the correct values
3. add al_local_mad function and change ci interface to pass av_src_attr for traps generation.
4. ib_local_mad support NULL pointer at p_mad_out
5. in case of response unexpected the response does not pass to the recv dispatcher
7. add sm_lid and sm_sl to svc structure

git-svn-id: svn://openib.tc.cornell.edu/gen1@539 ad392aa1-c5ef-ae45-8dd8-e69d62a5ef86