winverbs: fixes to support OFED compatibility libraries and ND

winverbs: fixes to support OFED compatibility libraries and ND

Winverbs fixes based on testing the DAPL openib_scm provider, which uses the
libibverbs compatibility library.

Simplify endpoint connect locking and code structure so it's clear when the
user's request is completed.

Add const to TranslateAddress to avoid a compiler warning when building the
ND provider.

Renumber CQ notification types to align with underlying code.

Take the RemoteAddress in a send work request in host order, to align with
the UVP.  (This will be revisited, but is required for RDMA over winverbs to
work for now.)

Signed-off-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
git-svn-id: svn://openib.tc.cornell.edu/gen1@2128 ad392aa1-c5ef-ae45-8dd8-e69d62a5ef86